Good afternoon everyone,
I hope this blog sees you well...Sometimes when I ask the question "who are you using for wedding photography?" I often hear, "we are using a friend of the family"...what i want to write about are the pros and cons of going this way...
Part of this trend is because of the economy...lets face it...gas is expensive, food is expensive, jobs are not as plentiful as they were a few years ago...the dollar is weaker, the stock market is on life support...it makes me wonder if America needs a good shot of Prozac to get by...lol...joking of course...
The biggest pro that I can see is that if a couple has very limited resources (under $500) to spend on photography or
videography then the family friend route is one of a few options to consider...for those who truly have a friend of the family that is an experienced wedding photographer (has done more than 10 weddings) and this person is doing it for free or a few hundred dollars then I would use that person as well (assuming they are volunteering to do it :)
The cons and consequences are many and vast...first of all your wedding is a once in a lifetime event...let me repeat...your wedding is a once in a lifetime event...After your wedding, the food will be gone, the flowers will have wilted, the
DJ's music will be silent...all you will have to truly remember the day are your images and or video...
think about this...images and video are that important as your only reminder of how magical the day was.
Because of the digital age that we live in it seems anyone who can afford a digital camera is calling him or herself a photographer...although I applaud anyone who is interested and wants to get into photography...your wedding day is not the place to start off...
Weddings are based around organized chaos...and I mean this in the most affectionate way :)...I have been shooting weddings and events for nearly 10 years. What I have found is that it takes a great deal of preparation and experience in order to get an image during key moments and emotions..myself and my staff are dedicating our time to make sure key moments and key times are captured...that is all we are focusing on...
On the other side: The
challenge with having a friend who is doing the photography is they may also be a guest...one who may become
preoccupied/distracted with other friends and guests or who may not be overly familiar with key moments to capture...
Once the key moment has happened during a wedding, it rarely can ever be repeated...the moment is lost and the ability to take the image is blown...I have heard countless stories from brides who used family friends who right now have very little to look back on...
My advice...if you have limited funds and or resources...having a family friend shoot the wedding is better than having nothing at all...however if you do have any kind of funds or choice in the matter...lets not be penny wise and pound foolish...