What can a wedding day teach us?


Hello Everyone,
I hope this blog sees you well. Last weekend was another interesting and brilliant weekend…yes I know I sound like a broken record when I say that…but I am sincere when I mention this…Last Friday, I personally shot a wedding at York Beach (www.unionbluff.com)…what was very interesting about this was the fact Kara and Tom (the bride and groom) were very much in the public eye for most of the day…mixing regular folk with bridal folk makes for an interesting mix…also I really have to applaud the both of them for their willingness to get wet and wild as the shots on the beach unfolded.
Saturday is a lesson in life…how do you deal with adversity when its your big day. My bride Tiffany was getting ready at the Holiday Inn in Salem when the fire alarm went off as she was still getting ready…then when we made it to the Castleton in Windham, NH (http://www.castletonbcc.com/) the JP showed up over an hour late because he had it in his calendar wrong (which I find unacceptable because he was at the rehearsal 2 DAYS before the event)…so Tiffany and Jim had 2 choices…they could have either stressed out over everything that was happening and ask the question of “why”…or they could have…and actually they did…roll with the punches go with the flow…make the best out of a difficult situation in which they would have fun and still enjoy their day…
So how did they handle it…when the fire alarm went off I got a pic of Tiffany next to the fire engine posing beside it…a great way to get a memory of something that happened…so what happened when the JP didn’t show and the ceremony was supposed to start at 7pm and on top of that we were running out of light to do pictures…I huddled together with each of them separately and decided to do a 180…we decided to do the formal pics before the ceremony so that we could at least get the outdoor pics…I staged an event in which they could see each other for the first time so that it would still be special…then we were off to the races…and the great part was that after the ceremony was eventually over they could enjoy as much of the cocktail hour as they wanted to…we all had a great time and everything went off without a hitch…
So what can a wedding day teach us…it can teach us that life isn’t always perfect and sometimes go with the flow can be go with the good times ahead.
I would also like to thank Kevin, Hallie and Dan for doing a great job in photographing/shooting video for us in Boston and in Lincoln, NH @ the Indian Head Resort (http://www.indianheadresort.com/). So whats up this weekend?...1 wedding Friday and 3 on Saturday...more to come next week :)
All my best to you,
Peter
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